This site is dedicated to those who are committed to premarital sexual abstinence and to maintain sexual purity. Most of the materials presented here are taken from variety of resources such as books, the Internet, and other people’s experiences.

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Please keep in mind that the information on this page is neither exhaustive nor complete. The hope is that the site will provide adequate information about many positive aspects of abstaining from sexual relationship until marriage and negative consequences of premarital sex.

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Benefits of Abstinence

Cohabitation: A New Approach to Marriage

Below is the summary of an interview with Glenn Stanton by FamilyLife's hosts Dennis Rainey and Bob Lepine about the negative effects of cohabitation that are even proven by secular sociologists. Cohabitation has developed from a hostile approach to marriage into a trial of … More »

Pornography: Poisoning Marital Intimacy

Dr. Russell Moore This issue has become almost ubiquitous to such a degree that pornography—in terms of spiritual warfare—has been weaponized, including in our churches. Now, when a couple comes in to see me and they say to me: “We just don’t know what’s wrong in our … More »

Purifying the Marriage Bed

Dr. Russell Moore Continued from Purity, Not Just for the Unmarried Sometimes, people get their ideas about marriage from watching films and watching movies. That’s a really dangerous thing to do because of the films they choose. They want to watch The Notebook. If you … More »

Purity, Not Just for the Unmarried

Dr. Russell Moore Dr. Stinson says he already commends everything I have to say. So, I'll say this to Dr. Stinson: “We, Moores, might be a little people; but we're fiery! I guarantee you—if you get enough adrenaline in me, I can whip any man in this room!” The moment … More »

What Are Girls to Do?

Written Directly to Girls You are precious. There is no one else just like you. Your gifts, talents, and potential are worth celebrating. You are important not only to yourself and your family, but to the society we share and build together. Our society needs strong, healthy, … More »

Guard Your Purity 3

Monday, July 02, 2012 by John MacArthur If you’ve spent any time around a toddler, you know that even the simplest, most basic instruction is followed by an unending string of whys. The attitude behind his questions range from inquisitiveness to rebellion, but the … More »